It was once my dream to live in New York City. I would be fashionable and glamorous, with a sweet job at a PR firm or magazine. In all fairness, I could have made it happen, but I chose another path. One that led me to Florida and a non-profit job after college instead (after realizing that the non-profit job I was offered actually paid more than I was offered to work in NYC -- the PR firm handed me brochures for women's shelters where their entry-level employees often lived. I wish I was making this up.).
I would never change that decision, because any other way I don't think I would have met my husband, or had my lovely daughter. This weekend, the three of us went to NYC. Before we went, I pictured us eating in chic restaurants, shopping in cozy boutiques and maybe even catching a glimpse of a famous chef or two.
There were several firsts for me on this trip. (After seeing the list, perhaps you'll see why I am hoping some of these are "onlys" too.)
Before the "firsts" here's one that is an all-too-regular occurrence. Stuck in traffic going to train station. From back seat hear ominous wretching. Every single trip... it's like the exorcist back there. Couldn't stop though, so got to train station and stripped the wee one in the parking garage. Hosed her off as best we could with a few baby wipes, then sprinted for the train. No one wanted to sit next to us...
The first first: a pigeon pooped on my head as we were walking on the Upper West Side. Completely ruined my daydream that I will live there one day. If you've never had this experience, it is indeed as disgusting as it sounds. We were on our way to the Children's Museum of Manahattan, which is a nice place, albeit full of hyperactive children and their weary parents. Or nannies. We did see a disconcerting number of what could only be nannies pushing $800 strollers in that neighborhood. Sort of felt like an alternate universe. One where you don't have to clean up your own kid's vomit if you're rich enough.
So lunch that day was at a popular diner near Times Square, and our hotel. The only one who really liked the food was the kid... PB&J and chocolate milk, which is pretty much the only thing she eats. Ever. Dinner was at a coal-fired pizza joint. Pizza was awesome. Beer was pricey.
The next day, we walked down to Chelsea. The highlight of the trip for me was finding an awesome little shop called Three Tarts, where I bought some homemade marshmallows and this fabulous apron (I think I was born in the wrong half of the 1900s.) Then we went over to the Chelsea Market, where I was really hoping to stalk Tyler Florence see some Food TV excitement. The closest I got was a copy of the new Food Network Magazine, which is like Glamour for foodies. (I am so getting a subscription.) The market is really cool though, with shops like the Fat Witch Bakery and Eleni's, where the baked goods are more art than pastry. Couldn't browse too much though because both husband and daughter become like zombies around cupcakes... must... have... frosting...
We then went farther south to Greenwich Village (another first for me, but a good one) to find the Peanut Butter & Co. shop. After seeing it on television, we wanted to try it. (Also, see earlier note about only foods child will eat.) It is about the size of a large closet, and was practically bursting at the seams with people, so we got a couple sandwiches to go. Took the train back, where I got shut in the doors as they were closing (yep, a first). These subway doors... they're not like the elevator where if you get stuck they open again. Had to fight my way into the train... not pretty. That night we ate at a brewery near Times Square. The beer was great (still expensive though), and I tried a bison burger (another first). It was a little gamey, but not bad. I'd eat it again.
Saturday we saw a matinee of The Lion King -- first Broadway show for both my daughter and me. We loved it. Unfortunately, had another first shortly thereafter. Fell down a (sadly, non-moving) escalator in the biggest toy store I've ever seen. Twisted, or maybe sprained my ankle. Then we walked over to Carmine's, hoping to get some authentic Italian food. The wait was about two hours (bad timing... right after matinee and before late theater shows). I am not proud to admit this, but my ankle really hurt, I was starving and just wanted to sit down... so we ate dinner at the Bubba Gump Shrimp Co. (I have even been there before, so I knew what a tourist travesty it was.)
We did a lot of touristy things. Build-a-Bear where my daughter created a dog named Princess Candy, complete with a skirt, pink purse and pink patent shoes, Macy's where I bought clothes I don't need (but I can wear them to work... acceptable rationalizing?) and a sidewalk artist, who sketched an eerily good likeness of the wee one in charcoal. One of the best meals we actually had was a "brunch" of bagels at Penn Station on our way home.
So I didn't get glamorous photos of chefs or boutiques, but it was a trip of many firsts... not all good, but one to remember. If I ever finish this Everest of laundry, that is.
One photo I did manage... Princess Candy, in all her glory: